TEN THINGS I DO IN MY 60S THAT AREN’T THE NORM
As most of you know, I’m 66. And I’ve learned so much about myself in this decade of life….. which has actually surprised me! I remember back in the day hearing my mama say something similar and thinking, “Really? I thought she had everything figured out at her age!” Funny how things change when you’re the one getting older!
Anyway, I thought I’d share a few things about myself that might be a little different from what you’d expect. Some of them may even surprise you!
One thing I’ve learned through influencing is that EVERYONE has an opinion about what women should wear, how we should look, and what we should or shouldn’t be doing as we age. But just because something is expected or considered the norm doesn’t mean it’s right for ME. And that’s one of the best things about getting older…. you finally get to a place where you’re comfortable being exactly who YOU are!
SHOP MY LOOK….. SWEATER ~ JEANS ~ SHOES ~ SOCKS ~ HAT ~ BAG
So today I’m sharing ten things I do (or DON’T do) that might go against the norm. None of these are rules for anyone else. They’re simply choices that work for ME!
ONE ~ I REWEAR MY CLOTHES FOR YEARS
Okay…. this might not be the best example, because who WOULDN’T keep a pink fur coat FOREVER?! I’ve had this one for at least 25 years, and I still LOVE it! This is actually a great point! When you invest in pieces that fit beautifully, flatter you, and come in colors you love, there’s no reason not to wear them year after year. After all, some things are just too good to ever give up!
HOVER OVER IMAGES AND SWIPE LEFT TO VIEW SIX DIFFERENT FAUX FUR JACKETS
TWO ~ I DON’T DO BOTOX
I actually DID use Botox for about 3-4 years, but only on my ll lines (those vertical lines between my eyebrows). Then, all of a sudden, it just stopped working! In fact, when my med-spa compared my before-and-after pictures, there was absolutely NO difference. They basically told me to STOP WASTING MY MONEY!
So sadly (or maybe NOT so sadly), I said goodbye to Botox and decided to let myself age naturally. And you know what? I’m actually okay with it! These days, I notice how much Botox some women are using, and it makes me even more comfortable with my decision.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m all for women doing WHATEVER makes them feel beautiful. However, for me, I’ve reached a point where I’m happy to embrace the wrinkles and changes that come with getting older. I’m learning to be just fine with looking my age!
THREE ~ I BREAK PETITE FASHION RULES
At just 5’1″, I’ve heard ALL the rules about what petite women should and shouldn’t wear. Maxi dresses? They’ll overwhelm you. Palazzo pants? They’ll make you look shorter. And mixing bold prints? Too much for a petite frame! Well….. I wear ALL THREE, and LOVE IT! In fact, some of my favorite outfits are the ones that break those so-called rules.
I’ve learned that it’s more about finding the right proportions, getting a good fit, and most importantly, wearing what makes you feel fabulous! I refuse to let my height limit what I wear. So if you love something, figure out how to make it work for you!
FOUR ~ I LOVE DOING THE LAUNDRY
I know this might sound strange, but I actually LOVE doing the laundry! It feels so good getting everything washed, folded, and put away. I’ve been known to say, I might not be able to cook, but I can ALWAYS get out a stain! Give me a pile of dirty clothes over a trip to the grocery store or time in the kitchen ANY DAY!
FIVE ~ I DON’T CONTOUR
Contouring has never been part of my beauty routine. I’m all about keeping my makeup simple, natural, and QUICK! I want just enough coverage to even out my skin and enhance my features without spending forever in front of the mirror. I’ve never felt the need for a complicated makeup routine, and contouring honestly sounds stressful!
I just shared a reel showing my very simple everyday makeup routine. You can WATCH MY REEL HERE. You can shop my MAKEUP PRODUCTS HERE.
SIX ~ I DON’T DRESS MY AGE
I definitely don’t dress my age! I wear ripped jeans, love loud colors, and my hair could be called extreme. But that’s ME! I’ve never believed fashion should come with age restrictions. I wear what makes me happy, experiment with trends, and have fun with my style.
Getting older doesn’t mean I have to tone things down. In fact, why not have even MORE fun with fashion? Examples below of ripped jeans, loud colors, funky trends, and socks with heels!
SEVEN ~ I DON’T TAKE HORMONES
This is a super sensitive topic, and PLEASE KNOW that I’m not telling anyone what to do or not to do. This is ONLY MY EXPERIENCE. Every woman needs to make her own decisions with her health provider.
I know hormone therapy has been wonderful for many women, but it’s not something I’m doing right now. I’ve learned that what works for one woman doesn’t necessarily work for another, especially when it comes to menopause and aging. For me personally…. I don’t like the way they make me feel.
EIGHT ~ I’M NOT A FOODIE
I know this might sound strange, especially to those who LOVE food, but food just isn’t that big of a deal to me! My diet is pretty simple, and I probably don’t eat enough variety because I tend to eat the same things over and over. My favorite go-to, which I’ve shared before, is whole-grain, HIGH-FIBER CEREAL with nonfat milk, LOTS of berries, and walnuts.
Even when I’m traveling, I’m not one to get adventurous with food or try all the local specialties. I know what I like, and I’m perfectly happy sticking with it!
NINE ~ I DON’T LIKE NAPS
I don’t know if it’s because I’m naturally high-energy or what, but naps actually make me CRAZY! My husband loves a good nap, but I just can’t do it. There’s ALWAYS something I’d rather be doing!
Occasionally, if I get tired in the middle of the day, which usually happens when I’m sitting at my desk, I’ll simply close my eyes for a few minutes. I’ve actually timed myself doing this, and it’s almost always somewhere between 5 and 10 minutes. That’s it! And believe it or not, that’s usually all I need to get my second wind. A full nap….. NO THANK YOU! Am I the only odd one here?
TEN ~ I DON’T BELIEVE IN SLOWING DOWN
Slowing down has just never been my mindset. I like to stay active and moving. And this is EXACTLY how we stay young! I truly believe in staying engaged, strong, and productive…. it’s part of what keeps me feeling my best. I want to live every day to the fullest!
SHOP THIS LOOK….. SWEATSHIRT ~ LEGGINGS ~ TEE ~ SHOES
AND MY POINT IS….
No doubt we are all on our own journey. Figuring out what works for us and being confident in it, is such a liberating feeling. What feels right for me might be completely different from what feels right for you. And isn’t that the beauty of getting older? We have enough experience to know ourselves better, enough confidence to make our own choices, and hopefully enough freedom to stop worrying so much about what everyone else is doing!
NOW I’M CURIOUS…………. what’s something YOU do in your 50s, 60s, 70s and beyond that goes against the norm? I’d love to hear!
