What I’m Letting Go Of In 2026
One of the best parts of getting to this stage of my life, is CLARITY. I know what works for me, what doesn’t, and most importantly, what no longer deserves my energy. As the year comes to a close, I’m intentionally letting go of a few things that no longer serve me.
SAVING MY BEST CLOTHES FOR “SOMEDAY”
I used to be the one to wait for the perfect moment to wear my favorite pieces, and honestly….. I was missing out on so much fun. I’m going to try really hard in 2026, to pull out the special stuff and wear it every day! Because after all…… TODAY is the occasion!
REDEFINING WHAT STRENGTH LOOKS LIKE
In 2026, I’m leaving behind the belief that my workouts need to be intense, exhausting, or punishing to be effective. For months now, I’ve been shifting my focus away from the grind, and more towards intentional movement….. walking, stretching, mobility, and of course strength. These are all meant to support my life rather than drain it. This change has been a complete game-changer. I feel stronger, more energized, and more connected to my body than ever before.
CHOOSING HONESTY OVER APPROVAL
I’m leaving behind the habit of holding myself back to make others comfortable. I don’t want to be worried about saying what I think or need. I’m choosing to be more honest with not only myself, but others too. I believe that honesty, when rooted in respect, is the healthiest way to move through life. I think back to my mama and how clearly and unapologetically she voiced her thoughts, and I admired and respected her for that. For my whole life, I’ve cared too much about what other people thought of me. I’m learning that honoring my own voice matters just as much, if not more.
THE COMPARISON WITH MY YOUNGER SELF
In 2025, I’m leaving behind the habit of comparing myself to who I was at 30, instead of honoring who I am at 65. Do you find yourself doing this? I’m the worst!! It’s not kind, fair, and certainly isn’t going to make me younger…. but I find myself doing it too frequently. I’m constantly evaluating myself, which could be a good thing in many cases, but I’m too much the other way. There’s so much wisdom and depth in this season of life that didn’t exist back then, and I need to give myself the same grace I so freely offer to others.
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It’s hard to believe we’re wrapping up 2025. This year has afforded me with so many blessings….. especially within my family. I see the good woven throughout the year in my personal life, my business, and my health. I love taking time to reflect, and I love looking ahead with fresh ideas…. that blog is coming soon. Enjoy these remaining days of the year. Stay safe, and let me know what you’d love for me to write about as we head into the new year.
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